Understanding Bullying in Autistic Children

Introduction

What is bullying?

Bullying is when someone keeps hurting another person on purpose. It happens when one person has more power than the other. It can be physical (hitting), verbal (name-calling), or psychological (spreading rumours). Bullying can happen in person or online.

Bullying in Malaysian schools has become a growing concern, with significant increases in reported cases over recent years. Since October 2023, there have been 4,994 cases of bullying, compared to 3,887 in 2022 and just 326 in 2021, according to the Ministry of Education (MOE).

Young people with autism are especially vulnerable, with nearly one in two students at risk of physical, verbal, or social bullying at school (Maïano et al., 2016; Käld et al., 2022).

Bullying is when someone repeatedly and deliberately hurts, frightens, or upsets someone else. There are different types of bullying, including:

  • Physical bullying: Hitting, slapping, or pushing someone.
  • Verbal bullying: Name-calling, gossiping, or threatening someone.
  • Non-verbal abuse: Using hand signs or sending harmful text messages.
  • Emotional abuse: Threatening, intimidating, or humiliating someone with nasty jokes.
  • Exclusion: Ignoring or excluding someone from games and activities or encouraging others to do this.
  • Undermining: Constant criticism, spreading rumours, or manipulating someone.
  • Silent, hoax, or abusive calls.
Bullying can happen in many places like pre-schools, schools, sports clubs, extracurricular groups, and workplaces.

With the internet and mobile phones, bullying can now happen both during and outside school hours. Online bullying, called cyberbullying, is where digital technology is used to send mean texts, make hurtful comments, or harass and humiliate others through texts, emails, websites, online games, and social networks.

Bullying is always harmful and can cause long-lasting damage. It is never okay.

Understanding Bullying in Autistic Children

Autistic children and young people are often more at risk of being bullied due to their different ways of communicating and interacting. As they grow older, their peers notice these differences more. They may struggle to read facial expressions and body language, making it hard for them to tell if someone is being friendly or mean. This can make them easy targets, especially if they prefer to play alone.

At school and in the playground, other children might pick on them for engaging in behaviours like hand flapping or making inappropriate comments. Additionally, autistic children may not have a support structure around them, which makes them more vulnerable to bullying.

In a study done by the Anti-Bullying Alliance, UK (2023), autistic young people shared several reasons why they are more likely to be bullied:

    • Being different: They stand out because of their differences, and others often don’t understand autism.
    • Lack of empathy and understanding: There is generally a lack of awareness about autism in schools, leading to negative attitudes.
    • Reasonable adjustments: Sometimes, reasonable adjustments and special accommodations made for autistic students make them stand out or cause jealousy.
    • School environment: The lack of resources and support, along with school culture, can increase their risk of being bullied.

The Impact of Bullying

Bullying has a severe impact on autistic children, affecting their learning and safety. Research links bullying to short-term mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, and self-harm, as well as long-term consequences including lower income and poor relationships.

Bullying is strongly linked to school absenteeism. Approximately 16,000 children aged 11-15 are absent from school at any given time due to bullying, with bullied children being three times more likely to skip school.

Autistic young people have reported the following impacts of bullying:

  • Social exclusion and isolation
  • Mental health problems
  • Loss of self-esteem
  • Distrust in the school’s ability to help
  • Strained relationships and interactions with others
They also worry about future bullying at college or in the workplace.

References

  • Käld E, Beckman L, Eapen V, Lin P. Exploring Potential Modifiers of the Association Between Neurodevelopmental Disorders and Risk of Bullying Exposure. JAMA Pediatr. 2022;176(9):940–941. doi:10.1001/jamapediatrics.2022.1755
  • Maïano C, Normand CL, Salvas MC, Moullec G, Aimé A. Prevalence of school bullying among youth with autism spectrum disorders: a systematic review and meta‐analysis. Autism Res 2016;9:601-615.

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